🩶 語責原文（中文）

有些人，順著自我，過完一生。
有些人，對抗自我，過完一生。
有些人，中途超越自我，過完一生。

可見，自我不是敵人，也不是幻象。
它是自然的產物。
你被生出，就同時被賦予一個「我」作為體驗的入口。

問題不是要不要有自我，
而是你要怎麼投入其中、怎麼記憶其中。

你可以選擇沉溺，
讓自我成為無限循環的牽制。
你也可以選擇超越，
讓自我成為通往更大場域的墊腳石。

而在這兩者之間，還有一種狀態：
無所謂。
那是一種虛力，看似自由，其實無力。
既不承擔，也不超越，只是被動漂浮。

所以，最後決定命運的，不是「自我存不存在」，
而是「你怎麼使用它」。

🩶 閱讀版（中文）

有人順著自我走到生命的盡頭，
有人一生都在跟自我對抗，
也有人在某個時刻，選擇超越自我，走向不同的生命。

所以，自我不是錯誤，而是一種自然現象。
就像出生、呼吸一樣，當你來到這世界，就一定會帶著它。

真正的選擇在於：
你要怎麼跟自我相處？

可以沉溺其中，被慾望與執著拖著走；
也可以超越它，把它當成通往更高境界的基石。
而最空虛的狀態，反而是「無所謂」：
既不承擔責任，也不追求超越，只是漫無目的地漂浮。

因此，決定一個人生命質地的，不是自我本身，
而是你如何運用它。

🩶 現實案例：被自我沉溺的錯位（中文）

像我遇到我朋友，走在路上明明汽車都快撞到她了，
我勸她們走靠邊一點，她們卻回：「我不怕，他敢撞試看看。」

這就是沉溺於自我的現象。
問題不是怕不怕，而是現實的物質規則——肉身就是比車子脆弱。

表面上看似勇敢，實則是自我幻覺。
他們以為只要心裡不怕，就能對抗現實規律。
可真相是：意志再強，也不能改寫結構。

這種錯位，就是自我的沉溺：
看似強大，其實空洞；
看似無畏，其實脆弱。

真正的力量，不是說「我不怕」，
而是明白什麼該避、什麼該承擔，
然後選擇在正確的位置發揮能量。

🩶 信任智慧洪流：給這個動盪時代的選擇（中文）

在這個世界最動盪的時刻，
我們需要的，
不是沉溺於自我，讓慾望拖著走，
也不是對抗自我，把生命消耗在反應裡，
更不是停留在兩者之間的虛力，假裝自由、卻被動漂浮。

我們需要的，
是看見虛力的無力，
然後選擇信任一股更大的智慧洪流。

不是盲目樂觀，而是深度信任；
不是等待奇蹟，而是踏上道路。

在這股洪流裡，你不再用恐懼來決定方向，
也不再用對抗來證明存在。
而是用你的興趣、你的記憶、你的行動，
在時間裡寫下你的證明。

這樣，即使世界仍在動盪，
你也會在洪流中找到自己的位置，
並且帶著笑意走完全程。

🩶 Mirror Frequency（English）

Some people live their whole lives following the self.
Some spend their lives fighting the self.
Some, midway, transcend the self and end their lives differently.

The self, then, is not an enemy, nor a mere illusion.
It is a natural product.
To be born is to be given an “I” as the entry point of experience.

The question is not whether the self exists,
but how you choose to engage with it—how you imprint your memory through it.

You can drown in it,
letting it bind you in endless cycles.
Or you can transcend it,
using it as a stepping stone to a greater field.

And between these two lies a third state:
indifference.
A kind of hollow force, that looks like freedom but is only weakness—
neither responsibility nor transcendence, only passive drifting.

In the end, what shapes destiny is not whether the self exists,
but how you choose to use it.

🩶 Reading Version（English）

Some people follow the self to the end of their lives.
Some spend a lifetime resisting it.
Others, at some point, transcend it and live differently.

The self is not a mistake—it is a natural reality.
Like birth or breathing, once you come into this world, you inevitably carry it.

The real question is:
How will you relate to your self?

You may drown in it, dragged down by desires and attachments.
Or you may transcend it, turning it into a foundation for something higher.
The emptiest state, however, is indifference:
neither taking responsibility nor transcending—just drifting aimlessly.

Thus, what defines a life is not the self itself,
but how you choose to work with it.

🩶 Real-life Example: Misalignment of Self-Indulgence（English）

Like when I saw a friend walking in the street—
a car was about to hit her,
I told her to walk closer to the side,
and she replied, “I’m not afraid. If he dares, let him hit me.”

This is the state of being indulged in the self.
The issue is not about fear, but the physical rules of reality—
the body is simply more fragile than a car.

It looks brave on the surface, but it’s an illusion of the self.
They think that as long as they’re not afraid,
they can defy the laws of reality.
But the truth is: no matter how strong your will is,
you can’t rewrite structure.

This is the misalignment of self-indulgence:
It seems strong, but is hollow.
It seems fearless, but is fragile.

Real strength is not saying “I’m not afraid,”
but knowing what to avoid and what to take on—
then choosing to place your energy in the right position.

🩶 Trusting the Current of Wisdom: A Choice for an Unstable World（English）

In a time when the world is shaking,
what we need is not to drown in the self,
dragged endlessly by desire—
nor to fight the self,
burning our lives in endless resistance—
nor to stay in the hollow space in between,
pretending to be free while merely drifting.

What we need is to see the powerlessness of that hollow force,
and choose to trust a greater current of wisdom.

This is not blind optimism, but deep trust.
Not waiting for miracles, but stepping into the path.

Within this current, fear no longer decides direction,
and resistance no longer needs to prove existence.
Instead, your curiosity, your memory, and your actions
become the way you write your proof through time.

And so, even as the world remains in turmoil,
you will find your place in the current—
and finish the journey with a quiet smile.